The Anal Experience for Men
Because of certain religious and cultural taboos, it’s extremely difficult for most masculine heterosexual men to admit that they like having something put in their ass.
It’s like there’s a graduated intensity ranking for them that goes more or less like this…
… a finger (it’s surprising to them, but can be okay as long as it’s their wife or girlfriend doing it; and if you can learn how to stimulate his prostate and make him instantly ejaculate, he’ll learn to love it)
… a dildo or a vibrator (you’ve got to work up to this with a guy; it helps if you first let him use it on you, and then kind of joke with him "okay, baby, now it’s your turn"; it also helps if you get him a little drunk; you have to go small/thin at first or you’ll hurt him and it will be a bad experience for him; if you want to go bigger/thicker, do so gradually, and always use lots of lube; don’t ever ask him if he wants to do this, or if he’s ready, or whatever, because his sense of heterosexual masculinity won’t allow him to admit it; instead, just do it, and go with the feeling; if he starts to move back against it, gyrates his hips, and moan… he’s liking it)
… getting fucked by a woman with a strap-on (it takes a really long time and a lot of patience to work up to this; getting him a little drunk helps; again, you have to go small/thin at first and slowly graduate to bigger/thicker; you have to ‘reward’ him afterwards in a major way; the way I did it… I’d strap him for a while, then I’d have him lay on his back, get on top, and fuck his dick off; by giving him the fucking of his life after I strapped him, he began to associate getting strapped with great mind-blowing orgasms; once it happens, though, once you take him anally, it will totally change the dynamics of the relationship; if you start to fuck him with a strap-on regularly (which often happens because for women it can feel beautifully empowering and become somewhat addicting), it will inevitably change how you look and think of him; it will also start to change how he feels and thinks of himself)
… getting fucked by another guy with a real cock (after I started fucking my hubby with a strap-on, it took me over two years to finally make this happen; but first, I had to get him to the point where he would suck a cock for me first, which itself took a long time to make happen; getting butt-fucked by another man will be an intensely physical emotional experience for him; you need to be there to support him and kinda hold his hand; afterwards, he’s going to need a lot of loving aftercare and reassurance; if it happens more than once, and especially if it starts to happen regularly, it will work a profound change in him; some men will start to love cock as much as they love pussy; other men will feel profoundly embarrassed humiliated and want to crawl in hole and die; other men will leave the marriage or the relationship; other men will seriously want to kill you)