Strap-on fucking, or pegging a man, is… I suppose… different for everyone.
What’s it like for me?
Not so much masculine feelings really, but I suppose there is a sort of raw masculine energy to it, so maybe in a way.
For most of my sexual life (since I lose my virginity at a very young age), I’ve been the submissive partner, which is actually my more natural place.
But since I’ve discovered FemDom, and introduced FemDom principles into my marriage… wow… I LOVE being the penetrator, and making my husband take it whether he wants it or not.
I get turned on just watching “my cock” go in and out of his ass, stretching him open, and forcing its way in, and how on the out-stroke it kind of pulls his ass with it, like his tight little hole is gripping “my cock” to keep it from leaving.
I love surprising him when I want it, without any or much notice, and just telling him “bend over, boy”. I especially love to wake him up in the middle of the night, get behind and on top of him, and just put the head of my strap-on dildo up against his tight little bitch hole and start to penetrate him while he’s still half asleep and before he even knows what’s happening.
I love feeling him submit to me. I don’t often orgasm from it, but I do get extremely aroused. My time to cum is afterwards, when he eats out my cunt. That’s always a must afterwards.
The power and control and humiliation gets me going. If I’m fucking him really really hard and fast and kind of grinding it into him, and the angle is right, I can sometimes cum, but it’s tricky. I have to get into a certain rhythm. But I can get the rhythm right, yeah, I can cum.
I love to smack his ass when I fuck him from behind.
If I’m fucking him missionary position, on his back with his legs up, I love to grab hold of his balls and just kind of use them like the horn of a saddle.
I love to take him that way for my pleasure. His pleasure is really mostly irrelevant to me. In that situation, he’s the bottom and I treat him like the bottom.
I enjoy violating him with “my cock”, which… when I’m taking him that way… feels like it’s a part of me. I love to make him feel used, and violated, and remind him that he’s there just for my pleasure, and to do what I want him to.
It’s a power rush to my senses. I love to hear him screaming and whimpering and moaning for me, such sweet sounds they are.
Obviously there are lots of physical sensations for both of us, but for me, it’s really more mental. For me it’s all about my dominance and his surrender and submission to me.