Getting Her Interested
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It’s okay to discuss things with her, and let her know how you feel. To let her know that you’re interested in a FemDom relationship, that you want to submit to her authority, that you’re okay with her cuckolding you, or both.
But it needs to be her decision. Whatever happens, or doesn’t, is up to her. She controls that.
Pamper her, love her, cherish her. Massage and worship her feet when she gets home from work. Or after a night out together. Master the art of eating pussy. And eating ass. Women love that. You need to get to the point where you can make her cum three or four times in a row just with your mouth and tongue and fingers… without your penis ever being involved. You have to master that.
When you make love to her, make it an amazing experience for her. Remember: making love to her is not about your pleasure, it’s about hers. It’s not about the penis, it’s about the pussy. Don’t forget that.
After you ejaculate inside her, immediately go down on her and lick her out, clean up after yourself, and make her cum again. She will get some major messages from you when you do that… because licking out your own cum… that’s something that only PussyBoys do.
If your sexual performance is less than adequate, which it likely is, you need to be honest with her and admit it. Acknowledge your failings. Believe me, she knows it already and is likely very frustrated about it. Tell her that you’d understand if she wanted to experience sex with another man, a man with a big cock, a man that gets harder, a man that lasts longer, or whatever… who can give her the fucking she needs and deserves. Let her know that you’d be okay with it. Believe me, she’ll get the hint.
But make sure it’s what you really want because both FemDom and cuckolding… each on their own, but most especially together… are powerful dynamics to introduce to a marriage. Either one will permanently change the relationship. I think for the better, but others may disagree.
Once she locks up your penis and starts controlling your orgasms, and experiences the benefits of that, watch out. What might start out as a fun novelty for you will quickly become your every day reality. A lot of men can’t handle that.
Once she starts fucking you with a strap-on, as enjoyable as that is for most women, it will change how she looks and thinks of you. It’s just inevitable. In her eyes you will become a PussyBoy. And once a PussyBoy always a PussyBoy. She may still let you penetrate her, but she will start to think of you as the bottom in the relationship, and start treating you that way, because you are.
Once she starts fucking another man, once she gets a taste of that excitement and freedom, it will likely escalate, at least in the short term. One man will become two, and then three, and so on. She’s not going to stop. She’s going to fuck a lot of men. She’s going to fuck the kind of men that turn her on, and they’re not necessarily going to be men that you approve of. A lot of white women “go black”, and never go back to white boys after that. A lot of women also eventually meet a special man that will become her regular bull. And she’s not going to be able to help her emotions from getting involved. Women are like that. Men who fuck us good, make us cum, and that we spend a lot of time with… we tend to get emotionally involved. It’s biological. When she starts going bareback with him, doing certain things with or for him that she doesn’t do with or for you, and… especially… when she starts spending the night with him, you’ll know.
And one final thing for all you naive boys out there. If you think it’s all going to permanently stay just your little secret, you’re dreaming. You’re going to need to get over that because she’s going to tell her best girlfriends. She’s going to tell them every little detail. Women do that. We can’t help it. We have a biological need to share things like that with our closest friends. She may deny that she’s told anyone, mostly to spare your feelings, but believe me, she has. All her close female friends will know that she dominates you, that she locks up your little dick, that she straps your ass, and that she cuckolds you. And that also means that the husbands and boyfriends of her closest female friends will also know. Because women do that too. If after a while you start to notice that they look at you differently, it’s because they are. They know.
You’re going to have to be ready for all this.